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Porn, prudes and the greater good of humankind... Maybe that's what the title of this entry ought to be...
I think one reason I forget that I am unique in some respects is that what and who I am feels so goddamn non-negotiable sometimes. I also tend to surround myself with like-minded people (when I can help it), so I guess that helps...
Who the fuck doesn't watch porn these days? Who DOESN'T want to have incredible sex? Who in the world could possibly rationalize that these things aren't kind of linked? Just for shits 'n' giggles, I just went by a Tumblr blog a few moments ago that specializes in short (very short... seconds long) porn clips. Not even looking for "material" so-to-speak, but just... I don't know... surfing the web, I guess...
My reaction to some clips? "Ew." Others? "I can't believe she has THAT pierced!" Still others? "Normal people don't do THAT... (and I have a pretty wide range of what I believe normal people SHOULD be doing)" And of course there are a good number of clips that inspire a sentiment something akin to: "NICE!" or "Oh, I want THAT..."
And then I got to thinking... Men really should screen for women who are not only porn-tolerant but for women who LIKE porn when they're ready to settle down with a long-term partner. These are the gals who are going to be good at what they do. Points for open-mindedness, for starters, but how the hell else does one experiment without compromising one's own personal health, safety, morals, etc.???
I think I started reading about sex when I was maybe 12? Maybe earlier (Seventeen Magazine had a regular column called "Sex and your Body" where teens asked questions and got advice. I never missed it.)... Would that I not had and explored such resources... No advice columns, no books, no porn, no erotica, etc... I'd probably have had to "experimented" with a dozen or more guys to know what I like, what they might like, what's normal, what's weird, what's weird but super-fun, etc... And even that's being conservative considering at least half of them would probably fall into the "selfish-in-bed" man category...
I don't know--I'm sure I've overthought this just a bit. Just blows my fuckin' mind that there are adult women out there who are seriously "prudes." I'll take good sex, thank you and love every moment of the research that goes into getting it.
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